You’re right there is no perfect way. I know sometimes I do want my friend to tell me what to do, other times, nope, just rub my back.
I honestly think that some people don’t know how to deal with situations like death. I for one am one of them. I just “I’m so sorry”. That’s all I got and I feel maybe that’s all they need to hear. ❤ Thanx for your support always Jonathan