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This One Comment Triggered Me Beyond Belief

And I’m changing my life because of it

Iva Ursano
8 min readJul 25, 2022
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I’m no stranger to negative comments. In the last 7 years of doing this online ‘influencer’ thing, I’ve had to grow fairly thick skin and for the most part, I’ve done a good job.

I think.

Every now and then a comment comes across the screen and you will find me yelling shit like “Felicia, how about go fuck yourself”

I know, stellar self help guru right here 🙋‍♀️👈

I’m not sure if it’s just my age though. At almost 60, I practically have no filter when dealing with people. I basically want to shout Fuck off all the time. This could be why I’ve grown so attached to dogs in the last 3 years or so.

I woof dogs 💛. A lot. They keep me sane and happy.

Anyway I’m trying to be more patient and kind and loving and understanding and and and…I’m trying. But people are exhausting.

Why am I just realizing this now?

Do I have covid brain?

Now I’ve also been dealing with the tail end of covid and really running out of patience lately. Maybe that’s why I have little to no tolerance for some people and their ignorant comments.

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