Death, Family

I’m Not Sure When My Parents Died

Does that make me a bad daughter?

Iva Ursano
4 min readMay 25, 2024


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I noticed recently while mindlessly scrolling through Facebook that some of my friends post updates like “Mom, you left us xx years ago today. I miss you every day…” and it got me thinking.

I have no idea what day my mom died, or my dad. No clue.