Life

If You Knew Me 40 Years Ago, You Would Have Hated Me

Depending on your personality, you may have even wanted to beat the shit out of me — but I’m all better now.

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My name is Iva, and I used to be a mean girl. There, I said it. Actually, mean girl is slightly inaccurate. I was a cold-hearted bitch.

Let’s go back in time just a wee bit. 40 years to be exact.

Ok, so that’s a lot of years to go back, but this time frame is important so you can understand where I’m coming from.

To put this in perspective, I am currently 62 years old.

40 years ago, I was a greedy, selfish, rude bitch. I look back now, and I’m surprised no one beat the shit out of me back then. I’m surprised I even had friends.

I wouldn’t do anything for anybody if there were no gain in it for me.

Forget it. Do it yourself.

If I had to do something for someone and didn’t get anything in return, I would go on and on about it, making sure everyone heard me talk about how horrible this person was.

“As if I did all that for them and got nothing in return! Fuck that I’ll never do anything for them again!”