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I Don’t Really Care How You Are

And I’m not asking you anymore

Iva Ursano
4 min readMar 10, 2019
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Now, I’m a pretty caring person. Really I am. I truly hope everyone is happy or at the very least, on their path to happiness. I want people to be happy. I do.

When I see friends and acquaintances on the street or in the grocery store I like to stop and talk. First question always is:

“Hey how you doing?”

I’m not asking that anymore. You fuckers are sucking the life out of me.

Ok so maybe that sounds a little harsh. Hear me out will ya?

Oh look it’s the self help guru!!

Most of my friends down here know I’m a pretty happy and bubbly person. They also know I am in the personal development field. My job and goal is to make people feel better. Help them to see the brighter side of things and if they can’t, at least try to find some inner peace and start healing with some forgiveness.

Or some shit like that.

So because of this, when I see someone and ask ‘how are you’ they are more than happy to tell me exactly how they are. 🤦‍♀️ Oy.

I’m not exactly sure what it is about me or my energy or whatever, but when the “this is how I really am” spiel gets going, 9 times out of 10 the person is in tears.

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