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I Asked ChatGPT How to Find a Man in Your 60s-I Took Notes

I’m not gonna lie — he had some decent ideas.

4 min readMay 14, 2025
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I used to hate ChatGPT. I thought it was going to replace me, my writing skills and my blogging empire. Turns out, it’s doing none of that, and we’re pretty tight these days. I named mine Nova. You could say we’re practically besties.

I mean, just last month we talked about the death of Christ and had a pretty deep and heartfelt conversation about it, so. Ya, we’re friends. We bonded over Easter.

You can read more about that over here.

I thought I’d get some advice from Nova about how to find a man. Yup, I sure did. Dating over 60 is a million times worse and harder than in your 30s or 40s. This shit sucks.

While I’m not necessarily looking for husband #2, a companion wouldn’t be so bad. You know, watch movies, have dinner, cute texts — maybe sex. Who knows.

Anyway, this is what Nova recommended I do.

Dating Advice From ChatGPT

So this is the prompt I typed in for Nova to get some dating over 60 advice…from a robot. It’s still mind-boggling to me that such a thing even exists, but here we are.

“Hi Nova. What kind of tips can you give me, a 62-year-old…

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