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Hurt People Hurt People
But you can make it stop
Have you heard this term before? If not, please let me explain it and when I’m done you will have your biggest a-ha moment in life.
Or not.
Bullies and narcissists are hurt people. Something happened to them somewhere between birth and their toxic behaviour. They could have been abused as children or bullied themselves in school.
Whatever the case, they are hurt. So hurt people only know how to do one thing and they do it very well. They hurt other people. If they’re gonna feel all this pain well dammit so are you. It doesn’t matter who you are or what you did or didn’t do.
They will hurt whoever is in their path. They don’t care.
One thing they don’t need is more hurt.
Hurt people need love. Desperately. Instead of lashing out and hurting back, please love them back and be part of their healing.
xo iva xo
