How to Be More Confident in 3 Simple Steps!

Yup. Only 3!

If you’re reading this now I’m going to make the assumption that your confidence is not quite at an all time high. That’s ok. Mine isn’t always either. There are some days I could surely use a confidence boost kick up the butt. I like reading blogs and eBooks on how to be more confident.

It doesn’t always come easy. Some days we feel we can conquer the world. Other days we want to curl up in a ball and hide. Are you with me here?

There was a time I had absolutely 0 self confidence. Nothing. Zippo. Zilch. Oh I used to walk around with my head held high thinking I was queen of the castle but I wasn’t. It was just a show. I was just pretending. I had nothing.

No self worth, low self esteem, no self confidence. Not.a.single.thing.

I took plenty of time after I left my last abusive relationship building confidence and working on my crappy self worth. I asked myself a million questions all the time:

• who are you Iva?
• what do you want in life?
• why don’t you love yourself?
• what’s wrong with you?

Those and many other questions. I spent a full year on a personal growth journey. It was tough af but I made it through. That happened…