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50 Things to Do Before You Turn 50
#38 is still one of my faves
8 min readOct 13, 2021
This year I turned 59. I can’t even believe that next year I’m gonna be 60. Oy. Where did the time go?
I gotta tell you, my life has been filled with so many ups and downs I could write a book. Wait, I am writing a book and one day I’ll get it finished.
My story in a nutshell
I need to give you a Reader’s Digest version of what my life has been like for the last 50 something years so you know I write with some real hardcore life experiences:
- physically abused as a child
- physically and sexually abused by spouses and partners
- homeless for a short while (that was hell)
- declared bankruptcy twice (the last time 9 years ago)
- single mother
- my son’s father committed suicide in 2019
- my family ostracized me at my mother’s funeral
- hit rock bottom at 52 (when I left my last abusive relationship) for the 2nd time (there was another trip to rock bottom in 2020)
- clawed my way out and totally reinvented my life.