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20 Things I Need You To Do For Me

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Iva Ursano
3 min readDec 8, 2021
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I never used to be the type of person who asked for help. I always liked to do things on my own and if I hit a wall, I would figure out how to smash it down. Until I couldn’t. Then I would ask for help.

I’m the person who always says “No no no, I’m good, I got this!”. Even when I didn’t get it. I just hate asking for help, er, wait. I used to hate asking. Until I realized that people actually do want to help.

People really do loving helping. Shocker, I know.

I wasn’t always nice

I used to be an ugly mean person. I was selfish and greedy. I was judgemental and ignorant. I was an awful lot of a whole bunch of horrible things until I grew up and really got a good wake up call.

One day I woke up and had nothing. Not a fucking thing to my name, besides hope. And I had to ask a lot of people for a lot of help. I had hit rock bottom and that’s where I grew, changed and learned. A lot.

I slowly learned a new way of living and being. I learned how to be kind, I learned how to be compassionate, I learned how to treat people properly, I learned that stuff means nothing, I learned how to love myself…

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