11 Reasons Why No One Likes You

Even though you really are a nice person

Iva Ursano
9 min readNov 4, 2021
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If you’re anything like me, or like I was, it kinda really bothers you when you find out people don’t like you. You’re fairly certain you’re a nice person with a good heart. You feel you are likable enough. So what gives? Why don’t people like you?

Why people don’t like you

I use to have a really hard time with this, I’ll be honest.

It used to hurt my feelings. An awful lot. And then I would spend, er I mean waste time, trying to figure out why they don’t like me and how I could possibly fix that.

Ok, so I used to be a people pleaser.

I’m one of those people who needs attention and validation. Wait, I used to be one of those people. I needed people to like me all the time. I was sad when someone didn’t like me.

“Why don’t you wanna be my friend? I’m nice dammit”!! Yet no matter how hard I tried, some people simply didn’t want to be my friend or even like me (insert sad face emoji).

When someone doesn’t like you for no reason

Well, you think there’s no reason but really there is. You know you’ve done nothing wrong to a person. You didn’t step out of line and you weren’t rude or…

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