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10 Ways to Deal With Your Dysfunctional Family at Christmas

Telling them to fuck off isn’t one of them

Iva Ursano
8 min readDec 14, 2021
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It’s beginning to look a lot like “fuck this shit”. You know, where we have to all gather around the table for the big family Christmas dinner and celebrate and pretend we like everyone.

Yippee!

Unfortunately, we aren’t all too excited about this upcoming event. Many of us have to deal with a super dysfunctional family.

Is this you? It used to be me. Don’t feel bad or embarrassed. I honestly believe, in this day and age, there are way more dysfunctional families than there are ‘normal and healthy’ ones. Amirite?

Dealing with a dysfunctional family at Christmas

My family was one of them. I say was because both mom and dad are passed on now and I no longer live in the same country as any of the fucking misfits in my family.

So, anyway, the day of the Christmas feast is fast approaching. You’re starting to feel a wee bit of anxiety. Like that pit or knot in your stomach is getting tighter and tighter.

You are totally dreading this day. I feel ya. You wish you could just graciously decline the invitation but you already know that will stir up more trouble so you suck it…

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