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Like never, ever, effin never!


You’re here because you’re either nearing 50, you are 50 or you’re over 50 and you have no clue what you should be wearing anymore. Like, is there a catalogue for age appropriate clothes for 50 year olds? Who knows.

Anyway, today I’m gonna tell you 10 things you should…

And swallowed a mouthful of compassion


You think I’m joking don’t you? I swear to God. I positively, absolutely without a doubt, ate tiny spiders, and lemme tell ya, I didn’t enjoy it one bit.

So stick with me here while I share my story as there are two parts. Kinda. You have to know part…

We’re such hypocrites!


You know, we personal development peeps are a strange lot, amirite? We go on and on about how you need to flick fear and embrace change and try new things and so much other positive life changing stuff. We want you to smarten up and be happy dammit!

Fuck fear…


And 5 things I don’t love 😫


I’ve never actually lived alone until about 7 years ago. At 52, I had just left an abusive relationship and was about to be on my own for the first time ever. And I’ll be honest, I wasn’t really looking forward to it much.

The Libra in me loves love…

Iva Ursano

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